The "carrying a torch when I didn't need to carry a torch" messaging - wow. I too jumped into caring for my dad once my mom died. And now, 2 years later, am fully grieving both of them. Also, my mom was my therapist for everything. So much of this resonates with me. Thank you.
HUGS Joann! It's so hard when you lose someone that you used to bounce everything off of. I remember it being so so hard making certain decisions because I was so used to being able to bounce things off of my parents.
The "carrying a torch when I didn't need to carry a torch" messaging - wow. I too jumped into caring for my dad once my mom died. And now, 2 years later, am fully grieving both of them. Also, my mom was my therapist for everything. So much of this resonates with me. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing that. Joann. I also feel comforted knowing I am not alone in this. Big hugs.
HUGS Joann! It's so hard when you lose someone that you used to bounce everything off of. I remember it being so so hard making certain decisions because I was so used to being able to bounce things off of my parents.